Sunday, August 15, 2010
Live life by your own rules
Anytime someone asks me how I'm doing I usually say, "Living the dream." Most people think it's a joke, and in a way it is. My life's pretty average when it comes down to it. But at the end of the day I have the freedom to do what I want, so in that respect I am living the dream, or at least my dream at this stage in my life.
I feel like people are in a rush to do everything. People feel the need to be married by this age, kids by this age. They need a certain job, car, house or they won't be successful. Whatever happened to appreciating the little moments? People get so caught up in getting all the big things done they forget to appreciate what comes along the way.
You have your whole life to start a family, but how much time do you have to do whatever you want with no responsibilites? Not very long when you think about it. Also, why do you only have a certain amount of time to do things? I feel like if the norm wasn't to get married and have kids by a certain age people wouldn't do it. Not that there is anything wrong with either of those. In fact, I would like both someday. It just needs to be for the right reasons.
It's almost like these societal milestones are a chore sometimes. I better live it up in my 20's cause in my 30's I have to settle down. Why? Why not just let it happen when it happens? Go out and meet new people, join an Alumni softball team, go to a network event for work. Get out of your comfort zone and stop worrying about what you're supposed to do. Realize what you're ready for at this stage in your life. If you're ready to settle down then do it. If not, then don't. That's the beauty of America, you can do what you want. I think sometimes we forget that. Life's too short to just resign yourself to a certain fate. Get out there and make your own dream.